Oct. ’18 Volunteer Spotlight
Girls Self- Confidence Workshop at ICD
On Friday, September 21st, 2018, Sr. Alia Azmeh from MFS held a workshop at the Islamic Center of Detroit (ICD) on how to build self confidence. Today’s girls have more possibilities and choices than ever before. They can develop their talents, make goals for themselves, plan their futures and so much more! As wonderful as it is to make these choices, it can be confusing and making the right decisions can be tough. Sr. Alia explored strategies on how to navigate through life by making the right choices. If you are interested in having a workshop like this at your school/masjid, please contact us at 313.366.6800 for more information.
Refugee Art Contest
We will be holding a refugee art contest on October 27th, 2018 at Masjid Al-Salaam. We are looking for 15 refugee children between the ages of 8-14 to participate in this contest. They will paint a portrait of a picture that “is worth 1000 words” by telling a story through their art. Three winners will be selected to win 1st, 2nd, and 3rd place prizes between $50-$100. Help spread the word!
Painting with A Twist
Imagine building your life back up from the ground. Sounds stressful right? So we are taking the ladies from Sakinah House out for a painting session at Painting with a Twist’s Detroit location. Thank you to all of the donors who made it possible for the ladies to go out and enjoy an evening of painting, laughter, and fun. This event will take place on Oct. 21st, 2018 from 2:00 pm – 4:00 pm. JazakaAllahu Khairan for all of your efforts to help these ladies in need.
Sept. ’18 Volunteer Spotlight
Sleman is a Syrian refugee who came to America with his wife and children 3 years ago. He has been volunteering with Muslim Family Services (MFS) for 2 years now and he is one of our most reliable volunteers yet! You may have seen him, his wife, and his children at many of our events helping out. Next time you see him, say Salam and thank him for all he does for MFS and the community!
MashaAllah, our back to school distributions were a success! ICNA Relief’s Muslim Family Services was able to supply backpacks with school supplies to over 1,600 children this 2018 Back to School giveaway season. This program helps under-served families and children get the backpacks and supplies necessary to help students have a successful school year. A huge thank you to all of our partners and volunteers who took time out of their weekends to help us pack backpacks and distribute them this year!
Eid al-Adha Meat Distribution
Our annual Eid al-Adha meat distribution will take place at MFS office from 3pm-4pm on Saturday, September 8th. If you are interested and qualify as low to no income, please contact Sabrina at 313-366-6800 or email at email@example.com for more information.
2nd Annual Comedy Tour
Thank you to everyone who came out to support our programs on Sat. August 4th! Our 2nd Annual Comedy show included Muslim artists Omar Regan, Omar Esa, and Ali Official. Omar Regan was emcee for the night and his performance brought many laughs to the crowd. Omar Esa’s vocals and nasheeds had people clapping and singing along and Ali Official performance garnered a lot of laughs and giggles! The show ended with and intimate Q&A on how the artists got their start in showbiz, the music industry, and on social media. Other questions included how they deal with depression and setbacks and they gave their advice to aspiring artists on how to become successful in doing what you love. Their performances were out of this world, mashaAllah! We want to thank our volunteers who helped us set up, register guests, and clean up after the show! Thank you to Ali Official who joined us all the way from the UK, as well as Omar Esa, and last but especially not least, our brother, Omar Regan for making everyone’s night, mashaAllah!
IAGD Monthly Dinner
Sister Tahira Khalid, head counselor at Muslim Family Services, will be speaking at IAGD’s Monthly dinner on Saturday, September 8th at 6:30 pm. She will be speaking about how we can place peace and tranquility back into our back to school schedules and ways on how to tackle stressful situations. Join us for this informative sessions to learn how you too can get back on track!
ICNA MI Family Retreat 2018
By: Mohammad Usama Toseef
The end of this summer saw a start of a new tradition of the ICNA Michigan chapter. The first ever ICNA Michigan family retreat was met with enthusiasm and appreciation by children, youth and adults. The retreat was held at the YMCA camp in Holly where around 60 individuals got together for team building activities, games, food, bonfire and much more. Among the activities, zip-lining was the obvious winner while Alpine Tower was the most challenging. The retreat started noon of August 18th and ended by noon of the next day. Families connected with other families throughout the event; new friends were made while old friendships were rekindled. All those who participated cherished the memories they made during the event and are looking forward to the next retreat already. Ameer of ICNA, Br Javaid Siddiqui, was also there and emphasized the importance of volunteerism and families encouraging each other to devote their time in the path of Allah SWT. Overall, the retreat was a success and the chapter hopes to attract more participants in the future
Sakinah House Activity
Muslim Family Services would like to treat our Sakinah House Women’s Transitional Home ladies to a night of relaxation. They have been working so hard to get back on their feet and we feel that with a little relaxation, they will be able to have some time to recharge! If you would like to join in or even sponsor one of the ladies, please call our office at 313-366-6800 for more information!
MFS Mobile Food Pantries
If you or someone you know is in need of extra food on a monthly basis, please direct them to our mobile food pantries. we have 3 mobile food pantries located at ICD, Tawheed Center, and Brown Chapel Church in Detroit. For more information, please refer to the flyer on the left.
YES I Can Workshop
Yes I Can is a workshop designed for young girls and women to help them build self-confidence and self-esteem This workshop will be coming to Islamic Center of Detroit on September 21st from 6-8 pm. Aliah Azmeh, LMSW and counselor at MFS will be speaking about the obstacles girls face and how to navigate through life in a graceful way! If you are interested in signing up for the workshop, please email Sr. Mariam Tolaba at firstname.lastname@example.org.
Sheikh Ali Suleiman Ali
Director of Muslim Family Services (MFS)
Welcome Ramadan 2018!
The blessed month of Ramadan has arrived. It’s Muslims’ annual guest and one that comes with infinitive blessings and rewards. It’s the month in which the Qur’an was revealed to our beloved Prophet Muhammad (pbuh). Almighty Allah said: “Ramadan is the (month) in which the Qur’an was sent down as a guide to mankind, and as clear (signs) for guidance and judgment (between right and wrong) 2:185.
Indeed, Muslims ought to celebrate the coming of the month of Ramadan for many reasons. Among them are the following:
1. The first revelation of the Qur’an took place in the month of Ramadan. In fact, the revelation of the Qur’an, unquestionably marked the end of slavery, oppression, injustice, as well as the salvation of mankind and the universal mercy for humanity.
2. When an observant Muslim does a good deed in this month, hoping for a reward, he may be rewarded for it in good fashion without limit. Hence, the month of Ramadan is called the month of the Qur’an and the generous month. Our beloved Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) used to review the Qur’an with the Angel Jibril (asws) in every Ramadan. In the year which the Prophet (pbuh) died, he reviewed the Qur’an twice with the Angel Jibril in addition to his regular reading of the Qur’an in tahajjud.
3. Among the blessings of this month is the fact that, the influence of Shaytan becomes weaker and less significant for those who properly observe the fast.
4. The month of Ramadan is a great source of spiritual exercise and growth for Muslims. It provides a platform for family reunions and it strengthens the bounds between relatives and friends. The month provides a golden opportunity for Muslims to get closer to Almighty Allah through the offering of more prayers, giving sadaqah, reading the Qur’an, building our sabr and the practicing of husnul-khuluq, good manners in dealing with people.
5. One of the special features of this month is one of its exquisite features, compared to other religious holy days, is that the month puts smiles on the faces of the needy and less fortunate. Allah provides for them through generous Muslims who are seeking the great rewards for their sadaqah and Allah also provides for them through zakat al-fikr. Unlike holy days reminding some of what they do not have, those of Ramadan help the less fortunate look forward to the month.
6. Fasting is the only physical ibada (act of worship and servitude) of the pillars of Islamic practice in which riyaa (doing an act for the sake of show, praise and admiration) is practically non-existent. Only Allah knows if and when a person is truly fasting and following its regulations. Hence, the fast is for Allah only and He rewards it accordingly. Thus, the virtue and reward of fasting in Ramadan can be without measure.
Here is a list of things you can do to demonstrate gratitude to Allah for the blessing He bestows during this blessed month.
1. Make your intention to fast this Ramadan as if this may be your last Ramadan. For example, remind yourself of your mortality by bringing to mind that you observed last Ramadan with some relatives and friends who passed away and are not with you for this Ramadan.
2. Do not miss any fard, obligatory, prayers . If you can pray all your prayers in congregation (jamaa‘h), please do it.
3. Read Qur’an as much as you can. You may read in two different ways: a. without necessarily reflecting upon the meanings, and b. with reflection and pondering. Please reserve some time for this second method.
4. Try not to miss taraweeh prayer.
5. Invite someone to break fast with you, even if it is one time.
6. Give sadaqah as much as you can, it will increase your wealth, not diminish it.
7. Pray as many extra prayers as you can
8. Reserve a good portion of your time for istighfaar, dhikr and du‘aa for yourself, parents, relatives, friends, peace for the world and relief for the oppressed.
9. Be on guard against backbiting, not telling the truth and making promises that you may not fulfill. These spoil your fast.
10. Visit your parents and relatives.
Aliah Azmeh, MSW, CSW
Take care of yourself this Ramadan
The month of Ramadan has already entered its second week. May Allah grant us forgiveness, mercy, and the ability to persevere with certainty that Allah will bless us during our fasts, prayers, and supplications.
There is no better time for a human being to inwardly evaluate him/herself then Ramadan. This month has been given to us as a blessing to slow down, de-clutter our lives, and turn back to what we were created for to begin with. Our true essence is through connecting with Allah and finding salvation and peace in doing so. In other words, we really have submit to our Creator – to let go.
To let go of all our anxieties, insecurities, frustrations, and to give it all to Him. Allow yourself to carry less baggage and to feel lighter.
Many of us are constantly bombarded with work, school, family, and juggling many different responsibilities that we forget to truly sit with ourselves and reflect. A good example would be that we complete our 5 daily prayers quickly. Even if we do concentrate, we focus on the words we are saying, and not what our hearts yearn to tell Allah.
It is through our connection with Allah that we find peace within ourselves because we know within our hearts that Allah is in control of everything and that He loves us. When we allow ourselves to submit to Him and to encompass ourselves with His love and mercy, our cups are filled with love and mercy and we are able to give that to our families, friends, and everyone around us. Allah knows that we need more peace and love in this world, in our communities, in our homes, and within ourselves.
We were created for a high purpose. Thus, our mere existence means that Allah has given us value and love. We must remember who we are and what we were made for in times of ease and especially in times of difficulty.
I ask Allah to turn our hearts to Him and to save us from hypocrisy, misguidance, pride, laziness, and a hardened heart.