Saturday 30 May 2015
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Muslim Family Services

Muslim Family Services

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We work to assist and facilitate the success of families based on professional and Islamic practices

  Who We Are & What We Do   Muslim Family Services (MFS) is a division of ICNA Relief and…

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MFS offer seminars, workshops, & liasion services related to a variety of topics.

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On Saturday May 23, Muslim Family services helped lead a community wide effort to clean the streets of Hamtramck. MFS partnered with Common Word Alliance, directed by Br. Arif Huskic, in cleaning up the Joseph Campau and Halleck St. blocks as well as surrounding streets such as Carpenter St. Also among the areas cleaned were the Masjid Al-Falah and Helping Hand (ICNA relief subset) lots. The turnout was excellent with about 15 volunteers taking time out of their day to keep the neighborhoods looking clean. 

As the entourage of volunteers made their way through the streets, they were repeatedly rewarded with the smiles of neighbors commending their efforts. It wasn’t just the smiles that kept the volunteers going; they were acting upon a sunnah of the Prophet SAW.  It was reported that he (saw) said:

 

“Cleanliness is half of faith”

 

When such a large weight is put on something such as cleanliness, we as Muslims should run to fulfill the acts associated with it. At Muslim Family Services, we have a goal within our community regarding cleanliness, and it is to keep our neighborhoods as clean, beautiful, and respectable as they were in their prime.  Our volunteers enjoyed a lunch after the cleanup ended and in sha’ Allah they will enjoy an even greater reward in Jannatul Firdaws. Keep them in your duas!

 

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It is that time of year again! Our Sponsor-A-Family Ramadan Project is here! 
The Sponsor-A-Family Ramadan Project intends to help deserving individuals/families fully take advantage of the blessed month of Ramadan by easing some of their difficulties. The program is meant to increase a sense of community and provide opportunities for community members to serve one another. As part of the program, interested community members can financially contribute or donate food items. The monetary or in-kind donations will be used to create Ramadan Baskets. The primary components of these baskets will be food products tailored to the specific client family’s cultural or personal cuisine/diet.

 

It was related that the Holy Prophet (s.a.w.s) said: "Anybody who offers meal for breaking of the fast of another person earns the same merit as the one fasting without diminishing in any way the recompense of the fasting person." (Tirmidhi)

 

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We will be offering a FREE Spring Health Fair on the last Sunday in the Month of May (May 31st). This health fair will be for men, women and children. Services offered as follows:

*BMI Test

*Blood-Glucose Test

*Blood-Pressure Test

*Dental screenings, sealents and fluoride treatments
(Children ages 4-15 only)

*Adult Dental Screenings and Cleaning (1st come 1st serve! Must sign up at 8:30 am to receive)

*Sugar In Beverages Presentation: How much Sugar Are You Drinking by the National Kidney Foundation.

*Physician consultation and refferals


*****Guest MUST come Fasting!***** (Food in system may alter test results).

Refreshments will be served inshAllah!

When: Sunday May 31st, 2015

Time: 9:00 am-1:00 pm (Registration opens 8:30 am)

Location: Auditorium Next to Masjid Al-Falah 12555 McDougall St, Detroit, MI 48212


*Volunteers needed! If you would like to volunteer, please contact us: http://bit.ly/1cdK8ot

Spring Health Fair 2015

 

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On Saturday February 28th, 2015 Muslim Family Services (MFS), a Division of ICNA Relief USA Programs offered a day-long workshop entitled “Blissful Marriage A to Z” that gave tips on developing ‘bliss’ in marriage and making it last. The workshop was developed and led by renowned authors Drs. Ekram & Mohammed Rida Beshir. This husband and wife team are the authors of “Blissful Marriage: A Practical Islamic Guide” and many other books relating to the Muslim household. The workshop ran from 10:30 am to 6:00 pm.

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The event was held at the Muslim Community of the Western Suburbs (MCWS) in Canton, Michigan. With approximately 100 guests, primarily made up of couples sitting side by side, the scene was perfect for an interactive marriage workshop. The duo opened up with their 1st session that asked the question, when is a person ready to get married?  Many of us feel that we are ready for marriage when we have free time, land a high-paying job or reach a certain age. However, the authors stated that in Islam, an individual is ready to get married when they have reached sexual maturity and have some means to support a spouse, even if those means are little.

The hadith by our beloved prophet Muhammad (pbuh) states that

“… from Ibn Mas‘ood, who said: We were with the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him), young men who had nothing of wealth. The Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said to us: “O young men, whoever among you can afford it, let him get married, for it is more effective in lowering the gaze and guarding one’s chastity. And whoever cannot afford it should fast, for it will be a shield for him.” (Bukhari, 5066)

Dr. Mohammed Beshir advised the guest that if they know someone else trying hard to get married who does not have the means, to help facilitate marriage for them because it inshAllah will be counted as helping them with half of their faith. It was also mentioned that a person should have good character and a keen idea about how respect and collaboration should work whilst seeking a spouse. Other proofs that one is ready for marriage are: understanding the nature and objectives of marriage, having clear knowledge of gender and spousal relations in Islam, understanding the Qur’anic rule of communication, knowing how to resolve conflicts in an Islamic way and understanding what Qawamah(family leadership obligations) means and its implications in family life.

The majority of the tips given in this workshop related to respect, understanding, compassion, kindness, sincerity, affection and iman (faith). For an individual to have a healthy marriage, they must develop the purest form of all of these characteristics. Even in our disagreements, a Muslim should remember Allah (swt) and consider their spouses feelings. It is so easy to point the finger and avoid the blame. However, to be in an honest relationship, one must be well, honest. This means that 50% of the time, the argument is due to something that you did; you spouse is not always the root cause.

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Authors Drs. Ekram & Mohammed Rida Beshir

The authors mentioned that divorce is the most hated permitted act in Islam by Allah (swt). It tears apart families and tribes leaving emotional wounds on parent and child alike. Divorce should be the last resort to solving marital problems; one should never use it as a threat. It is advised that the Muslim exhaust all means before concluding on divorce except in the case of deep physical and mental abuse at the hands of a spouse. Islam does not support oppression of any kind.

The guest were broken down into six groups and given three case studies to tackle; with two groups doing cross-comparisons of their case studies. These studies allowed couples to exercise their judgment about the inappropriate and appropriate ways to handle spousal conflict. There was a case in which a husband had been trying to call his wife all day and kept getting her voice mail. As the hours passed, he grew increasingly worried about her well-being. The wife, had been with her good Muslim friends all day and was having so much fun that she lost track of time. Not having realized that her phone battery went dead, she returned home. Her husband, extremely upset, expressed his panic over her being missing. When she explained that her phone battery went dead and that she was simply at a friend’s house; he asked that she ask him before day-long visits with friends. She felt that he was being too controlling. The groups were asked to dissect the scenario and point out the faults and offer solutions.

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Both groups agreed that the wife was irresponsible due to her heedlessness about her phone battery being dead. They noted that it is important that all phone owners keep their phones charged in case of emergency and in order to check in with their spouse. They could understand why the husband grew panicky when unable to reach his wife after several attempts; noting that his emotion was out of pure concern for his wife’s well-being. It was suggested that instead of making his wife ask to go visit a friend, he could have asked that she inform him instead so that the couple knows the whereabouts of their spouse out of courtesy.

The workshop ended with advice to all married couples and those wanting to get married. It is important not to ‘idealize’ your spouse; by doing so, you are putting them on an unrealistic pedestal of perfection that they will never meet. Getting angry makes it difficult to resolve issues according to Islamic guidelines. So, avoid getting angry by sitting down like the prophet Muhammad (pbuh) advised. Build your family on love and mercy. Learn how to forgive and forget. Take initiative in your home and do not expect your spouse to do everything for you. Lastly, practice patience. InshAllah with this advice all of us will have blissful marriages.

            

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Asalamu alaikum good people! Muslim Family Services has lined up 3 exciting events just for you this weekend. On Friday February, 27th at 6:30 pm, MFS will be hosted by ICD in a free promo night for the "Blissful Marriage A to Z" workshop the following morning. During this hour long event, Drs. Ekram & Mohammed Rida Beshir, authors of "Blissful Marriage A to Z : A Practical Islamic Guide", will be advising on " How to Attain Paradise in our Homes".  InshAllah, this will be a great preview of the "Blissful Marriage A to Z" workshop.

On Saturday February 28th from 10:30 to 5:00 pm., Drs. Ekram and Mohammed Rida Beshir will be offering their workshop "Blissful Marriage A to Z". This event is co-sponsored by MCWS in Canton and is scheduled to be held there as well. Onsite Registration for this workshop begins at 9:30 am.  Cash or Checks accepted only. Free Breakfast and Lunch will be available inshAllah. Babysitting available as well. See flyer for fees.

Last but not least, on Sunday March 1st, MFS will host our Annual Fundraiser dinner! Not only will the 3-course dinner be amazing inshAllah but, we also have quite an exciting program prepared for you as well. This time around, we will hear from the voices of the individuals who have received help through our programs as they tell their stories and say their thanks.  You will not want to miss this dinner! InshAllah, it will be a great time and a great success!May Allah (swt) preserve you all and grant you health and continued prosperity. Say Ameen! We hope to see you all this weekend!

 

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